I am so sorry to hear of your problems. I am a firm believer in the sayings “What’s to be will be”. You MUST make every day count who knows who will get this dreadful disease – someone must – so why not you OR maybe me – Who knows. But, fight the bloody disease.

So, good news can be received.

When my dad was told he had Cancer – The Consultant wanted to see me – I asked the Consultant outright – what type of treatment would my Dad receive and when. I was told ” NO TREATMENT” my bubble collapsed – after struggling with my tears and, in fairness the Consultant put up with my outbursts, and when I became co-herant in-between crying bouts – I asked how long he had and was told possibly 5 months – maybe more but, it could be less – I went into pieces –

losing my mum when she was 49, brother at 29 and now even though I had my dad for longer – I did not want to loose him.

Questions were asked – for example “Why didn’t the biopsy on my dad reveal this dreadful disease – I was with Dad at the time of the Biopsy). I don’t think the Consultant knew what to do as I as was pretty aggressive (but, not to him – to the BLOODY system).

I quickly realised that even if the Biopsy had been negative – one can have the “All Clear” that very same day BUT, tomorrow is another day and, it can be contracted then.

I suppose the Medical Profession then does not take the wrap.

Personally, as I previously said “What’s to be will be”. Someone somewhere has to have the disease. You must fight it and get better. You have a strong family in Australia and I am sure they will be one hundred percent supporting you.

My main advise – DON’T GIVE UP – tomorrow is another day and yes that day will come. Fight, fight and fight – don’t give up easily. I believe the power of the mind is so positive and the medical profession still do not know enough about the mind.

David take care – I will be thinking of you.

Very best wishes,
Ann.